Celebrating Life as a Canadian in Belgium

Celebrating Life as a Canadian in Belgium

Many expats we’ve interviewed have expressed that living abroad is more than just a tick off the old bucket list;  it’s an actual dream come true! In today’s post we’d like to introduce you to Jaime Fallon, a Canadian expat enjoying the European way of life in Belgium and on a daily basis living her dream come true.  You can find her on Instagram 

WCIL: What is your country of origin?

Jaime: Canada

WCIL: What country do you currently live in?

Jaime: Belgium but previously lived in London, UK

WCIL: What made you want to move there?

Jaime: Moved to Belgium for my husband's work but we first moved to London, UK as I have always loved everything British, the European lifestyle and always wanted to make this dream come true. Being in Europe longer than I expected was a bonus!

WCIL: What was life like when you were considering to move?

Jaime: It was very mundane and routine as I was working in a 9-5 job that I had been in for 10 years, not doing as much travelling as I wanted to with the very limited number of vacation days at work when I was in my home country.

WCIL: How did you prepare for the move? Did you sell everything and just go or did you leave a home base in your home-country?

Jaime: We just took what we needed which were mainly clothes. We visited our home-country for summer and Christmas each year so during those times we brought back a bit more. As I didn't want to spend more money on the same household goods from Ikea, on one of those trips back to Europe, we brought along our Ikea pots and pans and utensils in our luggage! For the move to Belgium, I tried to sell as much as I could. Our son was a year and a half when we moved to Belgium so any baby related items that we no longer needed, I would sell online or via local Facebook groups.  We found a shipping company to move everything else to Belgium but had to wait a month before everything arrived.

WCIL: What did it feel like when you finally decided to move, buy the tickets, etc?

Jaime: It was a bit nerve wracking when I decided to move to Belgium to be with my husband as we still had yet to find a big enough apartment for our family.  At the time our son was only a year and a half and my husband was living in a furnished studio apartment commuting every weekend to London. It was also a bit scary as I knew nothing about Belgium and the idea that I didn't speak French or Dutch was daunting. I had already established friendships in London and having to start all over again in Belgium with the language as a barrier was a bit overwhelming.

WCIL: What were you most afraid of about this new life decision?

Jaime: Will it all work out? Will we regret it?

Canadian Expat Jamie with her family

WCIL: What did it feel like when you finally arrived to your new country? 

Jaime: Even though I had been to Belgium on a two-week holiday prior to moving there, finally arriving knowing that you will be living there for an indefinite time period was a bit daunting and scary. Scary because I had just left London which was busier, livelier and bigger.  I didn't have to worry about the language and it was just easier to get around. Also, having a young child with me in a country where I didn't know anything about the services they provide for children was also something I had to figure out. Plus I learned the hard way when I wasn't organized enough to go food shopping on a Saturday and realised that shops including supermarkets were closed on Sundays.

WCIL: Did you have any contacts or friends in your new country?

Jaime: I had a couple of family friends but they didn't live in the same town as we did and they lived in the French part of Belgium whereas we were in the Flemish part so there were different ways of doings things, accessing services, etc.

WCIL: How did you support yourself in your new country?

Jaime: I'm a stay-at-home mom and have really enjoyed the time I have with my son.

WCIL: If you had to look for a job there, what was the experience like?

Jaime: It has been extremely challenging and difficult to find a job where English was only needed/required unless you were in a technical role. I had met with many recruiters but unfortunately many roles (my background was in marketing which was mainly customer facing) required you to know French, Dutch and English so the process has been very frustrating. Having said this, it was still a good exercise to go on interviews.

Expat Jamie with a beer

WCIL: How is your day to day?

Jaime: My day-to-day involves getting my son ready for school (children start going to kindergarten at 2.5 years old in Belgium!), making his lunch, and walking 1km to his school. On the way back, I would do my food shopping at various supermarkets. Unfortunately we have a mini-bar fridge which means that I have to go grocery shopping every 2-3 days in a week. Once home, I do household chores or learn Dutch on my own. Sometimes I may meet other expat moms in the area for a get together and before you know it, it's time to pick up my son from school and then we'd go home and I start preparing dinner.

WCIL: What was your experience like with the locals?

Jaime: It has been great! The town we live in is a university town with many international students so even though my Dutch is nowhere near proficient, I get by and many times, the locals speak to me in English as they want to practice their English.

WCIL: Did you or have you been homesick and if so, how did you manage it?

Jaime: Definitely! With the internet nowadays, it's so much easier to access news from our home country and to have Skype dates with friends and family. Also, whenever I do get homesick I think about all that we have done and seen since our time in Belgium and it makes me feel better as I know the opportunity to live in Belgium/Europe is a once in a lifetime opportunity.

Canadian Expat Jamie in Belgium

WCIL: What have you learned about yourself in this new life? 

Jaime: That one can be resilient, adapt to change and that you just have to put yourself out there even though it may be out of your comfort zone.

WCIL: Is there anything else you'd like to share about your experience?

Jaime: It has been an amazing experience so far and having moved to two different countries with two different cultures, ways of life and even languages, you learn to appreciate what you left behind. Each of my moves were at different times in my life so each move brought different experiences (I was childless when I moved to London and had a toddler when I moved to Belgium) but I embraced them both and do not regret anything. If there was any regret, I considered it a learning experience.

WCIL: What would you say to anyone considering an international move? 

Jaime: Do your due diligence with regards to visas so you can see how you can live/work in a country.  Research the job market and get in touch with recruiters beforehand. Update your profile on Linkedin and if you don't have an account, open one as many of the recruiter calls I received were through LinkedIn. If you are moving to a country where English may not be the working language, enroll in a language course so that you can at least learn the basics (for example: greetings, numbers, how to order food at a restaurant, names of vegetables, fruits, how to ask the time, for directions, etc), and even if you are unsure about the move, take a leap of faith and just go for it. If it doesn't work out, you have tried otherwise you'd always be wondering 'what if'.

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Alison Johnson

Alison is a travel junkie, digital nomad and the co-founder of www.wherecani.live She has lived in 7 countries on 4 continents and is passionate about opening the world up for others.


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